Articles for Family Caregivers

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A Nurse's Guide for Taking Elderly Parents on Vacation

Are you going on a family vacation and planning to bring along one or both of your parents? Are you looking forward to enjoying some carefree quality time together as a family? Maybe it's a family reunion where multi-generations, including the grandchildren,


Sharing Family Caregiving Duties To Optimize Your Parent

Sharing Family Caregiving Duties To Optimize Your Parent's Care

Congratulations on your family caregiver position whether it be a volunteer undertaking or maybe a less enthusiastic acceptance. Caring for an elderly parent is a challenging task even for a professional caregiver. With that in mind, focus your efforts on


The Dos and Don

The Dos and Don'ts of Family Caregiving

Getting and keeping the entire family involved in this caregiving commitment, no matter how difficult, should be your top priority. Learn from the experiences of real families to better prepare you for the caregiving challenges that lie ahead.


Bedsores are Easier to Prevent Than to Heal

Bedsores are Easier to Prevent Than to Heal

As a former home health care nurse, I have spent a considerable amount of time helping family caregivers deal with the challenge of preventing bedsores. I will pass on some practical tips and care techniques regarding effective bedsore prevention that I have


BedSores... Persistent Attention is Key to Healing

BedSores... Persistent Attention is Key to Healing

Do not feel guilty or incompetent should your loved one develop a bedsore as this can happen in spite of your best efforts. Other complicating factors contribute that are often well beyond your control such as advanced age, incontinence, poor nutritional


Can I Get Paid to Care for a Family Member?

Can I Get Paid to Care for a Family Member?

The short answer is "Maybe". Some states provide programs that pay family members to care for loved ones at home however they are usually somewhat limited. These programs vary widely from state to state and even within the same state. Although most states


3 Community Resources to Help Seniors Remain at Home

3 Community Resources to Help Seniors Remain at Home

Are there senior resources in your parent's community to help them remain at home? If so, you may be wondering what they are, how do you pay for them, and when can they start.  Senior resources vary a lot from one area to another and while some are locally


5 Potential Ways to Get Paid as a Family Caregiver

5 Potential Ways to Get Paid as a Family Caregiver

The predominate question I am often asked by family caregivers is "Can I get paid to care for a family member?" After further research I will share some additional information on this ever popular topic. Some states offer limited programs that pay family


How to Find Low Cost, Affordable Respite Care

How to Find Low Cost, Affordable Respite Care

When you have exhausted the search for free respite programs then the next sensible approach is to find low cost, affordable respite care. When contacting in-home care agencies to compare pricing and negotiate better rates, be savvy and vigilant. Being


Six Things We Wish Dad Would Have Known About Reverse Mortgages

Six Things We Wish Dad Would Have Known About Reverse Mortgages

Six months: that's the amount of time the bank told us we had to sort out Dad's repayment of his reverse mortgage loan. Six months is what we were given to grieve, then come to terms with all the financial aspects left in limbo with his death. There are four


Senior Citizen Centers Pack a Punch!

Senior Citizen Centers Pack a Punch!

When my parents retired and moved to a quiet coastal town they soon met new friends of similar ages that actively participated in their local senior citizen center. Dad was a relatively young retiree at age 62 who emphatically believed that senior centers


My Elderly Parents Need Help with Transportation

My Elderly Parents Need Help with Transportation

Finding transportation can be challenging when Mom or Dad or both need help with driving to doctor appointments, shopping trips to the grocery, pharmacy and other local errands. It is often difficult for well-meaning but busy families with demanding schedules


Getting Mom or Dad Out of the Nursing Home

Getting Mom or Dad Out of the Nursing Home

Whether your parents have endured a short stay or an extended visit in a nursing home, it is not uncommon for them to vehemently protest staying any longer than necessary. You may hear comments such as: "I hate it here" "I'm desperately home-sick" "They treat


Respite Care Arms Family Caregivers with Strength and Resolve

Respite Care Arms Family Caregivers with Strength and Resolve

I was honored to care for my adorable and charming late husband of 32 years during his struggle with a terminal illness. As his nurse, I tended to his personal care and comfort requirements. As his confidant, my focus was on his emotional and spiritual needs.


Identify Self-Neglect in Your Elderly Parents

Identify Self-Neglect in Your Elderly Parents

Countless times I encounter families that are surprised, if not horrified, by what they find when visiting Mom and Dad's during the holidays. The resounding message heard is that Mom or Dad seemed fine during long-distance chats with them on the phone.


Caring for Someone with Terminal Cancer

Caring for Someone with Terminal Cancer

I spent over a year caring for my dear beloved husband suffering with end stage cancer until his death. I have been a practicing RN for over thirty years, which many people say made me exceptionally qualified for the task. I have heard those without caregiving


When is In-Home Care a Better Option Than Assisted Living?

When is In-Home Care a Better Option Than Assisted Living?

In a variety of situations, helping your elderly parent remain in their home by hiring caregivers may be a better option than assisted living. Commonly, elderly parents voice a strong desire to stay at home because it is where they feel most comfortable. Home


Help Your Senior Get Organized and Remember to Take Medications

Help Your Senior Get Organized and Remember to Take Medications

In addition to the meticulous planning of medications, equally as important is finding an approach that will prompt your loved one to remember to take their medications. Moreover, in order to elicit good compliance, it must be a sensible routine that is easy


Finding and Pursuing Free Respite Care

Finding and Pursuing Free Respite Care

Persistence and ingenuity will pay off when it comes to finding free respite. Perseverance will be rewarded by getting some well-deserved relief from your arduous caregiving duties. It's no joke that many family caregivers develop serious health issues such as